[ewg] librdmacm 1.0.4 release

[Sean Hefty]

I've pushed out a release 1.0.4 of librdmacm that addresses some of the feedback
from Doug.  Patches were posted previously to the list, with a small update
based on that feedback.

Please pull this release into OFED 1.3.

Changes from 1.0.3:
librdmacm/cma: provide wrapper functions to extract src/dst addresses
librdmacm/cma: provide sanity checks for max outstanding rdma ops
librdmacm/man: update man pages to clarify connection request params

Thanks,
- Sean