[openib-general] rdma_cm branch

[Sean Hefty]

>Guys, I must be confused.  I thought the private data _was_ passed up in
>the ESTABLISHED event on the active side.  We have tools in the
>perftools directory that utilize this.   What am I missing here?

When a user calls rdma_connect(), they specific connection parameters (like
responder_resources and initiator_depth) through a struct rdma_conn_param.
These parameters are NOT given to the user when the connect request event is
reported.

The issue is: are these values needed by the user during connection
establishment?  If yes, then how do we export them to the user.

- Sean