[ofw] IBAL CM ignores responder resources of the passive side

[Hefty, Sean]

> I'm afraid that just
> 
> p_cep->resp_res = p_cm_rep->resp_res;
> 
> can break some existing applications, which do not fill p_cm_rep->resp_res
> and still work.

So, there's no way for an app to accept the connection, but reject RDMA?  Oh well...

> Maybe
> 
> if (p_cm_rep->resp_res)
> 	p_cep->resp_res = p_cm_rep->resp_res;

This sounds good to me then.